Why don’t people believe me when I say I have an eating disorder?

Eating is a compulsory subject of living and we cannot survive without it. However, being suffering from eating disorder you can have a lonely experience . People generally do not bother if someone can suffer from abnormal eating habits.

They generally consider anorexia and bulimia as eating disorders. Those who get diagnosis otherwise, have to suffer alone. Even your clinician doesn’t take things seriously. Moreover, if you start taking these two particular eating disorder diagnosis on your nerves, you unconsciously adopt the illness and feel more negative.

Though DSM 5 has given more classification of eating disorders that commonly people are not aware of. Therefore, the sufferers suffer alone and their battle is theirs only without empathy and recognition. You cannot simply convince people that you are suffering from eating disorder if diagnosis is other than anorexia and bulimia.

Do you belong to a dysfunctional family? It’s for you!

Today I am writing for all the children who survived childhood traumas and abuse inflicted by guardians and parents. Hey! You all are gem. You survived the most toughest battle. You survived against the fears caused by your supposed protectors.

Let me explain more how it feels being born and raised among the dysfunctional families. Since you took birth your parents or guardians never let you feel importance of your very existence. They ignored your needs especially for emotional support.

They blamed you for every single wrong in their lives. They tortured you psychologically that you persistently suffered and these scars will remain until you leave the world. They bullied you, compared you with others and smashed your confidence. They made you drained, empty by taking away your energy, passion and the hope.

They used you to take credit of every single good you did. Similarly, they made you responsible for your and theirs every single failure in life. They destroyed your personality and feelings of self existence. Whatever they did or doing for you is for their own interests. If it serves them, it is perfect and if it doesn’t serve them you are responsible and should be blamed.

Hey! Don’t worry, you are not at fault but they’re. You are victim and trying hard to improve. You are trying to regain energy and relive. YOU ARE A GEM. You won the battle and going to become best parents or guardians for your kids in future by not repeating what you had gone through.

FORGIVE YOURSELF, REGAIN ENERGY AND RELIVE.

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